Do you think society values women with real curves? I know that most men will say they do but what do you think? I am here to tell you that as a red-hot blooded female here in the USA I am not destined to be a size 2. I have the kind of genetics that prevent me from being that women and even at my thinnest I have always had curves. I happen to be damn proud of the fact that I am a woman and don’t mind showing those curves off.
Marilyn Monroe, one of the most famous of curvy chicks represents the way that women used to look. Men for the last 40 yrs. have seemed to appreciate the fact that Marilyn was a real woman. Women also have appreciated the fact that she looks like what women want to look like. Translate that to today, marketers have found “It’s about finding new ways to connect with women. Some now seem more motivated by women like themselves than by unattainable images, and advertisers are recasting some ads.”
We all have a certain type of person that we are physically attracted to but for the most part most of us remain pretty flexible in our list of what we are looking for in a partner. I just think that genetically few of us are made to look like the models in the magazine naturally (notice I said naturally) and that does not mean that it does not look good. It just means that we need variety as in “Variety is the spice of life.” For the women reading who are blessed to look like the models or have that body type, great, work it girls.
As for me I know that I have the curves that show men that I am a real women with real curves and I am proud of that fact. Does that mean that I could do more to be healthier or lose a few pounds? Hell yeah. As for me though I know I have the confidence in myself and the ability to see that I am a real women who knows who she is and loves “showing her ass-ets.”
Feel free to comment on what you think about what I said, I would love to hear it. Let’s just all be real and be happy with ourselves the way we are because face it that is what the other person is attracted to in the first place…
Just remember too that you never know what other skills the girl with curves might possess that could be an asset to you. *WINK* You knew I had to throw at least one comment like that in there, right?